Summer Reading Challenge Reviews: The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

So I was going to count this book as the first book in my reading challenge, but I had such a great response and so many people wanted to join in, I had to start over on Saturday. But I thought I would share my thoughts about it anyway, because it really is an interesting book.

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I was trying to familiarize myself with the new Halifax library layout, and stumbled across the self-help section. This section gets a bad rep; people (myself included) often think that self-help books are full of self-righteous, obvious advice that is easier said than done. I don’t know what convinced me to give the section a second chance that day, but I decided to turn down the aisle and take a look at what it had to offer. The bright blue spine immediately caught my eye. I remember that this book had been pretty popular a few years ago and decided to give it a read.

I wouldn’t describe The Happiness Project as a typical “self-help” book. It is more of a memoir. The author, Gretchen Rubin, spends a year researching happiness and trying to find simple ways of becoming happier without a complete overhaul of her lifestyle. She methodically spends each month working on a new aspect of happiness (marriage, parenting, money, friendship, energy, etc) and tries to complete a set of resolutions each day that she keeps track of with a chart. (for January: Exercise better, go to sleep earlier, toss, restore, organize, Tackle a nagging task, and act more energetic) throughout the process follows twelve “commandments” the first of which is “Be Gretchen,” reminding her not to do what she thinks should make her happy, but to do what does make her happy, even it if doesn’t “sound right.”

I think I was drawn to the book because I’ve unconsciously started my own this summer. So many of the resolutions that she set out for herself were resolutions that I am also trying to keep, from “Exercise Better” to “Start a Blog.” I don’t think that Rubin’s meticulous method with spreadsheets and laundry lists of resolutions is for me, but reading the book did give me new goals and new things to think about.
I think that the most important lesson I learned from The Happiness Project is that you can find happiness “in your own kitchen” as she says. You don’t need to change your life completely, you just have to be yourself and be mindful of the people around you and the things that make you happy. She emphasizes that each person’s happiness project is their own, and completely different from anyone else’s. There is no one path to happiness, there are many and they are all right.

The book and accompanying blog (one of her March goals) became a worldwide sensation and she’s since written two other books on the subject, and has an accompanying podcast. She offers a ton of resources for people looking to start their own happiness projects. You can find all of it at

Challenge Update:
Pages: 0
Total Books Read: 0
Currently Reading: They Were Counted by Miklós Bánffy

Because this book doesn’t count, I’m back to square one. The book that I’m currently reading is super long. I might have to take a break and read some poetry in between. Remember to comment or tweet me @jl_nicegirl with #SoubretteReads2015 and let me know your page count and what you’ve been reading!

Want to know more about my Summer Reading Challenge? Find more information here

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The Starving Soubrette’s Summer Reading Challenge


Remember those Summer Reading Challenges for children at the Library? You’d read a bunch of books every week and get a sticker or something? I was never really great at them as a kid, but I was also a voracious reader and didn’t really need any extra motivation.

It wasn’t until my undergrad that I rediscovered reading challenges. My program was pretty book intensive and I never really had time for pleasure reading, so my friends and I would try to get as much reading done in the summer as we could. A group of us started our own summer reading challenge, we’d tweet our progress to each other, and try to read more than anyone else. The first year we counted books, but my friend Ben decided to read War and Peace that summer, so he technically lost even though he had probably read the most out of all of us. The following years we counted pages.

It’s been a few years since we’ve done a reading challenge, but I started thinking about it again after I was packing up my residence at the end of the school year and realized that I couldn’t fit all my books in the box that I brought them in. I hadn’t finished reading any new books, but I had accumulated at least 10 more! I decided that I wasn’t going to buy any new books until I had finished reading the ones on my shelves, and so the summer reading challenge was born again.

1. I can’t purchase or pick up any new books for myself.
2. Library Books are O.K. (I know it doesn’t help me read the books on my shelf, but Halifax just got a new beautiful library and it’s too tempting not to go)
3. Progress is counted in number of pages, not number of books.
4. I will donate books that I don’t love
5. The only exception is if George R. R. Martin finishes Winds of Winter sometime in duration of the challenge (I mean, it won’t happen, but still)

I’m going to try and keep you updated about the books that I’ve been reading by posting a review of the last book I finished every other Monday. This Monday, I’m going to talk about The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin.

If you want to join me in my reading challenge, let me know in the comments or tweet me @jl_nicegirl with #SoubretteReads2015. I’d love to know how far along you are, and what you’re currently reading!

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The Soubrette Speaks

Hello everybody!

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My name is Lauren, I’m an opera singer, and this is my blog.

Last year, I had a crazy revelation. I was sitting around, feeling unhappy about my life and slow (to me) artistic development when I came across a picture of myself in high school.


I thought about what she would think about my life. I realized that she would think my life is pretty cool, and that I had accomplished a ton of things that she wanted for her future.  Even if I am not quite where I want to be right now, where I am is still pretty cool.

After another unsatisfying year, I’ve had to remind myself of that truth again. And I’m going to use this blog to celebrate the fact and share it with all of you.

After all, my life sounds pretty cool on paper, so it must actually be pretty cool. Right?

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